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  • and_sew_on
    2y ago
    and_sew_on

    Ignore her.  Some people see only what they want to see.  I saw the posts before they were removed you were being attacked by at least 3 different people.

    1. Inserting words you never said (not once did you say anything about suicide

    2.  Another person making threats if you ever said it again (you would have had to say it once to say it again

    3. Still yet a 3rd person telling you there was no way everyone could hate you without you having done something to all of them

    People might mean well, but they never stop to think how their ignorance towards the situation can make their behavior more detrimental than the pain you are going through. These kinds of threats and accusations only show they did not want to understand what was going on.  And yes you are right to walk away from it, because they clearly don't want to understand.

    I will try to look you up somewhere outside of here as there is no means of privacy on here.

  • Interiors by Laura
    2y ago
    Interiors by Laura

    @Theadora, Yes there were threats and yes I was blamed and told it was all my fault and I was accused of saying things that were never said. It is impossible to have a civil conversation with threats, lies and judgement.  Therefore I simply am not discussing it with anyone anymore.

    Kindly stop flooding my rooms with your comments.  You are turning into an unwelcome stalker and you have made it perfectly clear where you stand trying to insert words that were never said or blatently lying.  I simply will not stand for that kind of behavior from anyone. 

    I know the pain that I live with everyday and that kind of behavior is of no help whatsoever.


  • Interiors by Laura
    2y ago
    Interiors by Laura

    @and_sew_on Thank you for your kind words. You are correct....heaven forbid if you have multiple strikes. If you have multiple strikes then they start judging every word that comes out of your mouth.  If you think different than them, then forget the possibility of ever having friends.  People do not get it, you didn't choose your physical make up, you can not always help your financial situation...but the world certainly has no problem judging you for it.  If they have already chosen to judge you, then there is very little you can say or do to change their mind. People here have tried to say it is my fault, I have been threatened.  It is a live people can not fathom so they find it easier to point fingers than to truly understand.  For that reason I am not longer discussing it here.  I get it I am not everyone's image of perfection, it is something I have learned to live with....but it does not take away the pain inside.

  • and_sew_on
    2y ago
    and_sew_on

    3. I have lived this life and it is very lonely. You are correct when you say that you can not change people's attitudes. And it does become extremely hard to find anything good inside when you feel like everywhere you go, you are being judged. Please know that I am praying for you and I understand what you are going through.

    People insisting the problem has to be you, simply do not understand this because they have never lived it and they need to back off if they don't want to understand. I know the judgement is real, I know the pain is real and more finger pointing, more threats for something they do not understand is absolutely no help.

  • and_sew_on
    2y ago
    and_sew_on

    1. Your rooms are gorgeous.  Immerse yourself in something you enjoy.  Stop listening to the rest of the world.  People shunned even Jesus.

    2.  People can be very judgemental.  I used to weigh 350lbs and people judged me the second I walked through a door.  I know for a fact that you can never do a thing and people will still hate you without even knowing you. People judge if you are in the wrong income bracket, they judge if your kids aren't in the same sports, they judge if you are too short, too tall, too skinny, too fat.....and heaven forbid if you have multiple strikes against you because then you might as well kiss friends of any kind goodbye because no one will give you a chance.